From
Brooklyn College to Budapest
by Etienne MARTINEZ
I
always felt that studying abroad even
if for just a brief period of time, would
expose me to new and exiting experiences.
After all, wasn’t that the impetuous
behind space exploration? I realize that
I live in a great country which people
from the farthest stretches of the world
call home. Surely I could learn about
and engage with different cultures right
here, but it would not beat going abroad
and seeing first hand different cultures
in their native environments. The people
who come here are usually only a percentage
of the people they leave behind and while
they may be able to bring language and
culture here, they cannot bring their
entire country with them. I always felt
that countries are as much a part of national
identity as culture and language. One
can go to a Hawaiian theme party in the
Bronx, but it is never the same as a Hawaiian
party in Oahu. Every country has its own
beauty and appeal. Although I may have
a slight inclination towards Caribbean-like
environments, I can also find the charm
in varied climates. I have a friend who
is originally from Siberia and he cannot
say enough good things about his homeland.
He would probably find the Caribbean unbearably
hot.
Before visiting Budapest, I never went outside
of this country. I have driven to Georgia,
and I have visited southern California
and I must say that for being one united
country, we enjoy very diverse regions;
many would say that New York itself, which
is so different from the rest of the United
States, is a country in itself. I would
say that the fact that this country is
so diverse and has stayed united is a
testament to the resiliency of our democracy
and constitution. There are entire regions
of Europe that would fit into the size
of the United States many times over,
but consists of many small countries that
probably do not even have the diversity
that we have. I believe that these kinds
of issues should be studied and not just
by historians and sociologists but as
well as by common citizens who contribute
to society. I never knew when the opportunity
would arise for me to study abroad or
to really get hands-on experience learning
about different cultures and countries,
but I knew that should the opportunity
arise I would not be able to say no.
"I was a restless entrepreneur with
no money and no real practical ideas."
Before I go into how I got involved in the
study abroad program, I must first explain
my mindset. The year was 2003 and it became
evident that my entrepreneurial aspirations
would have to come to a temporary halt.
I had dropped out of college because I
became disillusioned with my major and
I couldn’t find my motivation. I
was a restless entrepreneur with no money
and no real practical ideas. I thought
that I could major in business management
and finance in order to get some business
ideas or meet the right people, but after
two years I realized that that major was
not meeting my needs. I felt like I was
being herded around with the other cattle
in to the direction of the forty-year
employment corral. For an entrepreneur,
there is little worse than working for
someone else for the rest of your life.
That is why I left college. I was able
to get sponsored by a company to get my
life/health insurance licenses and at
20 years old I ventured out in to the
world of personal finance. It was not
such a difficult transition because I
was actually doing it the previous year
at the same time that I was a student.
I felt that in order for my business to
work, I had to dedicate all my time to
it and leave college. The entire year
of 2003 became the most expensive learning
experience of my lifetime. I poured my
heart and soul on a business that did
not even bother to throw me back a bone.
After two years of spending my money and
energy in to a business that was not working
for me, I had some decisions to make.
It was difficult enough to drop out of
school against the wishes of my family
and friends and now I would have to admit
failure in the one thing that I thought
would set me up for life. Would I turn
into a couch potato or another statistic?
I started to entertain the idea of going
back to school, but I could not figure
out what I wanted to do because I promised
myself that if I would ever make a decision
of that magnitude again my mind would
have to be in the right place and I must
have the proper motivation. I made the
decision to go back to school in 2004
with the idea of just getting the core
classes out of the way because regardless
of my major, I would have to take them
anyway.
"Where the more you know the more
you realize that you don't know..."
My new motivation was to genuinely be interested
in learning just so that I could add value
to myself. I also stumbled upon Puerto
Rican and Latino studies courses that
I thought might be interesting because
of my love for Puerto Rico. That fall
semester of 2004 I came back to college
feeling like a freshman again. I was a
new person with new experiences and a
better understanding of who I was. That
semester was great; I got an A in all
of my classes. This confirmed for me that
having the right motivation in any career
is crucial for success. I learned about
the Puerto Rican and Latino Studies and
Business major that was offered at school.
I though that this was a great major for
me because I could have the opportunity
to learn about people while at the same
time learn about the ever-changing dynamics
of business in a context that would not
necessarily confine me to only working
for someone else for the rest of my life.
Through this major I took a class with
the infamous Prof. Stevens-Arroyo and
the rest was history. The class dealt
with the economy of Puerto Rico from the
18th to the 20th
century. What impressed me the most about
this class was the Professor’s command
of the inner-workings and the political
climate for which the economy of Puerto
Rico reflected at that time. The professor
connected everything to everything without
leaving any gaps. We are used to having
an education that conveniently compartmentalizes
everything so that when we think about
economics, we do not think about politics
or culture. However, intuitively we know
that everything is really connected, but
Professors do not always talk about those
important connections. For example, when
we learn about Pedro Albizu Campos and
his vision for Puerto Rico most people
do not know that his convictions were
religiously based; he was a devout catholic.
Professor Stevens–Arroyo is not
afraid to make those connections and tell
it like it is. It is funny to see that
some students actually feel that Prof
Stevens is changing the topic when he
talks about the larger issues that play
a significant role in the issues at hand,
when they actually have everything to
do with each other. His style of teaching
is very complete and answers many questions,
but at the same time forces you to ask
more questions about the subject so that
you are really getting a complete education.
I later learned that Prof. Stevens subscribes
to a philosophy that education is a process
instead of a means to an end, where the
more you know the more you realize that
you don’t know, so that education
is ultimately learning how to formulate
focused and intelligent questions so that
understanding grows; the most important
job of an educator is teach students how
to learn. I did not know his philosophy
until he shared it with me in Hungary,
but I was experiencing it throughout the
entire time that I was with him and when
I looked back at how he taught us, I realized
that it all made sense, he was always
consistent and precise with his method.
His ability to educate, together with
my desire to learn abroad, were the reasons
why I immediately said yes to him when
he was recruiting students for the trip
to Budapest, Hungary.
If I learned anything from my personal experience
in starting a business, I learned that
when one has the genuine will to do something,
the means should never become an obstacle.
I did not know how I was going to pay
for the trip or how I could actually execute
it, but I wanted to go. I knew that if
I would do anything, I would have to recruit
my girlfriend Irina to the expedition.
One day I just told her that we're going
to Hungary, and we needed to find a way
to do it. Irina was confused at first
because the whole idea seemed to come
out of nowhere, and she knew that my major
was PRLS& Business and she couldn't
understand how it had anything to do with
Hungary. I explained to her that studying
abroad would be the most rewarding experience
we might ever have in our college careers
so we need to take advantage of it. She
could not disagree with me on that point.
I also told her about the possibility
of visiting her native country, Ukraine,
which is just on the border of Hungary.
This really opened her eyes; she never
thought it would be possible to visit
her country again, because of the chaos
going on there. I also explained to her
that Hungary has many things in common
with Latin America in that, like the countries
of Latin America, Hungary has been under
the rule of one super-power or another
so that it has in many ways played a supportive
role to other countries. We have come
to call this type of relationship, the
core-and periphery model. Just like an
apple has a core that holds together the
meaty part or the periphery together in
a tight bond, different superpowers have
clung to Hungary and to the countries
of Latin America for their resources.
Irina and I had already been to Puerto Rico
together in two occasions so she had an
idea about the relationship between the
United States and Puerto Rico. She knew
that Puerto Rico is essentially a colony
of the United States with its common-wealth
status, which is ambiguous in many ways
by itself, but at any rate it would be
interesting to look at a Central European
country in the same light that we look
at a Latin-American country. Irina soon
realized the value and the incredible
opportunity that it would be to go to
Hungary. Next thing we knew, we were in
the process of getting our passports and
were purchasing the tickets. The first
thing that we realized was that a roundtrip
direct flight to Hungary could almost
pay for five roundtrip tickets to Puerto
Rico, but this was not the way to look
at it; we thought of it as a bargain for
a unique educational experience in Budapest.
"...Between
Brooklyn College and Hungary..."
The learning experience did not start when
we went to Hungary. We had about two weeks
worth of intensive instruction in a classroom
here at Brooklyn College before we left
in order to give us a framework from which
to develop our understanding of Hungary.
In those two weeks we got to learn from
four knowledgeable professors in different
fields. First was Professor Stevens-Arroyo
whose specialty seemed to be everything
underneath the sun. He probably would
say that his special interest is religion,
even though I might find it hard to believe
given that we never spoke in depth about
the subject, but because I later did a
research paper on Taino religion using
one of his authoritative books on the
topic as a reference, I can be assured
that he is an expert on that too. Then,
behind every intellectual man there is
an even more intellectual woman. In Professor
Stevens’ case, it is his wife, also
named Professor Stevens. She is in many
ways like her husband when it comes to
knowledge and wisdom, but where Professor.
Stevens lacked in mathematical know-how;
she made up for it ten-fold. Her interest
is in women and religion and she is a
leading author in that area of study.
Not only was she very educated and insightful
to the class, she was also a very positive
and lovely woman. She was so astute that
she immediately picked up on the fact
that I had a proclivity towards business
merely by reading my journals. Another
important professor who we had the real
privilege of having was Andras, he is
originally from Hungary and has served
as our real connection between Brooklyn
College and Hungary. At that time, he
was actually an aspiring professor who
was working as an assistant for Professor
Stevens. They made an incredible duo;
they were like the answer to each other’s
prayers. Professor Stevens longed for
a real and meaningful connection to his
Hungarian roots, while Andras was moving
from one dead end job to the next hoping
to rise in the ranks of academia and higher
learning.
Andras’ interests were very unique, he
wanted to research everything that he
could about the disenfranchised people
that we call “gypsies”, more
accurately and respectfully referred to
as the Roma. His relationship with the
Roma stems from a longtime and deep-rooted
friendship that he has had with them in
Hungary. He has an understanding for the
Roma and a commitment to their cause in
his country and throughout the world and
that is why he is here studying the one’s
who leave Europe. At first it seemed that
we were going to mainly focus on core
and periphery in Hungary, but to everyone’s
awe-inspiring surprise our journey would
take an unexpected adjustment to include
the first hand experience of the rising
up of the Roma in Hungary.
Lastly, the fourth professor whose presence
we were graced with was Professor Anneris.
Her expertise was on Dominican affairs
in New York. Her knowledge about Dominican
migration to New York was very insightful
because it gave us some ideas as to why
Dominicans leave their country to come
here. This was her first time in Hungary
and I am sure that she learned a lot from
this experience. Along with four distinguished
academics, a total of five students including
myself went on the expedition. We tried
to recruit some more students to take
advantage of the experience, but no one
else had quite the mental preparation
for embarking on this type of journey.
I understand that some people have other
obligations and cannot make it, and I
can also understand that some people had
no way of funding the trip, but I can
not understand the people who have no
other major obligations and can afford
the trip and see the potential for growth,
and do nothing about it. However, I can’t
complain about my fellow students, we
truly had the crème of the crop
in our classroom.
We were fortunate enough to have Irina who
was the most beautiful student among us.
Her creative eye and fresh perspective
on sociology helped to ground our discussions
on the elemental but important aspects
of sociology. We were also lucky enough
to have Adan in our group. He seems to
be an outstanding student who flirts with
a spirit of rebellion and is characterized
by a hatred of injustice. He is also Mr.
and Mrs. Stevens’ only child and
it seems that the apple did not fall far
away from the tree. We also had Stavros
on our team who is one of those kinds
of people you always invite to parties
because he is interested in many topics
and has interesting and new perspectives
on everything. He is a great conversationalist
and is liked by everyone. He is a heavy
coffee drinker and is known for always
saying “fair enough”. Our
final team member was Adam, a relatively
quiet and reserved fellow who is the only
person that I know who majors in both
film and physics. He enlightened our discussions
with his incredible ability to remember
specific details about Hungarian statues
and artwork, almost as if he had a photographic
memory. For two weeks we had a crash course
on the basic language skills of the country.
We quickly found out that the Hungarian
language is one of the most difficult
languages in the world because it is not
even a European language at all; it is
more closely related to Asian languages.
Andras confirmed that to say only Hungarians
speak Hungarian is not too far from the
truth. This did not stop me from attempting
to learn a few fundamental phrases in
case I got lost.
In addition to language, we also learned
about Hungary’s most defining historical
events. Hungarians trace their roots to
Asiatic tribes that came out of the area
of the Urals. Once they reached modern
day Hungary they killed off half of the
existing population and mixed in with
the other half. The Mongolians came in
1241 and were stopped dead in their tracks
from their ambitious westward expansion.
They did a lot of damage but Hungary recovered
from the invasion. By 1458- 1490 through
the leadership of King Matthias, Hungary
went through a process of westernizing
itself, in other words, becoming more
like the west with everything from architecture
to economy and even fashion. In 1526,
the Turks occupied the country for over
150 years. From 1703 to 1711 Ference Rakoczi,
A Transylvanian prince tried to kick out
the Turks but ultimately failed. His people
never forgot his efforts and his name
became very popular among the Hungarians.
The eighteenth-century became a defining
century for Hungary; its national anthem
was created, a revolution broke out that
temporarily dismantled the Hapsburgs,
but with help of the Russians the Hapsburgs
partially regained their power by sharing
it with the Hungarians. By the late eighteenth
century, Hungary was finally united. In
1918, Germany and its allies including
the Hungarians lost World War I and as
a result by 1920 Hungary lost two/thirds
of its territory to the surrounding countries.
In 1945, Russia liberated Hungary from
Nazi occupation and replaced it with Russian
communism and we all know what happened
to communism in 1990. By 1999 Hungary
became a part of NAFTA and in the same
summer that we went to Budapest, it joined
the European Union. Luckily we were there
when they were still using their local
currency called forints, which were considerably
weaker than the dollar. We loved using
our dollars in Hungary because they went
a long way, of course not as long as the
euro or British pound, but it might have
been the last time that I have gotten
my dollars worth on anything.
" Hungarians are a multi ethnic people..."
In addition to learning
some basic Hungarian and history, we also
learned about some of the cultural idiosyncrasies
such as their politeness and their delicious
food. Hungarians are a multi ethnic people
because they are decedents from diverse
groups due to their long history of conquest
from the Turks, Ottomans, Slavs, and Germanic
peoples. The most incredible thing about
Hungarians is the fact that they have
stuck with their Asiatic language and
identity despite the heavy European influences.
Despite the positive aspect and great
qualities of the Hungarian people, Andras
laments to tell us that there is also
a long-standing hatred towards the Roma
in Hungary. It seems to be counter-cultural
for a people who are diverse in nature
and have been afflicted by one defeat
after another would act so negatively
to a minority that has called Hungary
home for over a thousand of years.
So far we have learned
so much and we haven't even gotten to
Hungary yet. By this time in our study,
the points of comparisons are striking
between Hungary and Latin America. First,
we see that both peripheries claim ancestry
to an original people. In the case of
Hungary it is the Magyars and for Latin
Americans it is the various native peoples
like the Tainos or Aztecs. We also see
that through out history both Hungary
and Latin America have been threatened
or heavily influenced by major super powers.
We also see that both Hungary and Latin
America can claim to be a mixture of many
different ethnicities and cultures and
both have to deal with issues of racism
in their countries. These are just a few
of many similarities that can be found.
I only mention these because they are
the ones that immediately jumped out at
me. Some ignorant person might question
the importance of actually going to Hungary
when one can learn so much in the classroom
here. I have to refer back to the philosophy
that an education is not a means to an
end- it is experienced.
As I recall all that
we have learned before we went on our
journey, I mostly remember the unbearable
anxiousness that I experienced in those
few days leading up to the trip. I almost
could not concentrate on the lecture and
discussions going on in the classroom;
it was almost as if my mind was already
in Hungary. Finally, the last lecture
day was over and each of us parted ways
with an “I’ll see you at the
airport” message. Phase one of the
education component was completed and
everyone grew more comfortable and knew
what to expect from each other. We knew
that the second phase of the expedition
would enhance our learning experience
and bring us even closer. We also knew
that we were going to build relationships
and take learning to new heights. I believe
that at least in the back of our minds
we knew that perhaps eight thousand miles
away from home we could possibly meet
our destinies. Everyone looks forward
to a positive life changing experience
every now and then.
We woke up bright and early on the morning
of our trip even though our flight was
at night. Irina’s dad was able to
drive us to the airport when he got back
from work. When we arrived at the airport,
we were greeted by all of our professors
except Andras who had left a few days
earlier in order to prepare all of the
necessary transactions to make our stay
enjoyable and to catch up with family
that he has not seen in a long time. It
was a rainy summer day in New York and
everything went smoothly, the plane even
left on time. For Irina and me, the airplane
ride is a very exciting experience, but
we were not used to nine-hour flights.
Eventually, we fell asleep and that helped
the time to go by faster. It was great
to see that once we got there, we did
not waste too much time because we got
there in the afternoon the next day and
there was still some day-light left for
us to enjoy due to the nature of the different
time zones. We had a small bus waiting
for us outside of the airport and already
one could feel that we weren’t in
Kansas anymore. The bus had an entirely
different shape from what we were accustomed
to. It was small and very efficient with
space, but somehow we all fit in comfortably.
We drove about forty-five minutes to get
into Budapest and on the way there, we
noticed many beautiful landscapes of what
seemed to be endless fields of wheat.
I kept looking back at Andras to see his
demeanor while he watched his native country
go by and I looked at Irina to see if
she could sense that her birthplace was
only a five-hour drive away.
When we arrived at the hotel Charles, we were
greeted by a friendly staff that all seemed
to know English. I later asked one of
the hosts about his language abilities
and he told me that generally most people
in the tourism industry at a minimum speak
Hungarian, German and English and perhaps
another language from one of the surrounding
border lands. In his particular case,
he was originally from Romania so he also
spoke Romanian. I later realized that
a significant number of Romanians live
in Hungary which lead me to believe that
perhaps the job market was somewhat better
in Hungary than in Romania. We got into
our rooms and packed our stuff away into
closets and drawers. Our room was very
basic and different from anything we would
see here in the United States. It actually
did not feel like a hotel room at all,
it looked like a small apartment; it even
had a small kitchen. The only way I could
describe it would be that it looked like
something that would come out of a movie
from the Russian Television Network. The
room had many green and orange colors.
The door that separated the bedroom from
the kitchen had decorative stained glass
on it and the furniture was made of old
tried and true wood. The way the room
looked together with the view of a small
tree-abundant park outside of our window,
Irina could definitely smell the Eastern
European flare in the atmosphere.
We spent that weekend settling in and slowly
examining our nearby area. We found that
there was a local store only a block away
and that there was a Citibank even closer
than that. The great thing about the bank
was that it was the absolute best way
to change currencies because it would
do it at the correct exchange rate without
charging extra fees. Dealing in forints
took some time to get used too. At that
time one dollar would give me 200 forints
so it isn’t hard to see how one
could easily start dealing in thousands
of forints. In fact, one time when I wanted
to withdraw money from the bank, I accidentally
added a zero to the amount I originally
wanted. 5000 forints became 50,000 forints
with the accidental addition of a zero
and the ATM machine actually honored the
transaction. I almost had a heart attack
because first, I never had 50,000 of anything
in my hands before and because I could
not figure out how much money in dollars
it was; it could have been 5,000 dollars
for all I knew, but thankfully once I
was able to gather myself together, I
realized that it was only 250 dollars.
That lesson alone was worth more to me
than any global business class I had taken.
During that same weekend, we walked around
with the rest of the guys and found a
pub that served local beers and cuisine.
We knew that Germany and Austria were
right above us so at least I thought that
some of their beer tradition would be
exhibited here as well and I was right.
We soon learned that the beer of the land
was called Dreher and it was said to be
the best. I ordered a Dreher and a traditional
meal called beef goulash and boy were
my taste buds glad that I did. I could
not have enough of it, it was so delicious,
the beef goulash was incredibly tasty;
it consisted of shredded pieces of well-seasoned
beefsteak on top of a bed of pasta-like
noodles. The beer was incredibly rich
with flavor. It was so good that even
Irina liked it and she is not one to like
beer. Budapest is actually two cities
next to each other separated by the beautiful
Danube River; on one side there is Buda
that is known for its hills and on the
other side is Pest where we stayed. In
between the two cities is an island called
Margarita Island, which can be compared
to Central park. It is a beautiful park
that is surrounded by a long running track
where many people spend their time exercising.
In the middle of the park, there is a
gigantic fountain that shoots out water
in synchronization with music. The island
also has some medieval ruins of a famous
nunnery. I visited this park with Irina
on three or four occasions. One can get
there by boat or by bridge.
In some instances, we saw a yacht on the Danube
that was named the UKRAINA and Irina would
get so excited because it was as close
to Ukraine she was going to get. We had
already decided not to go to Ukraine because
of very real safety concerns in that country.
The weekend was over and it was back to
the classroom on Monday. We were fortunate
enough to use the facility at the Central
European University in Budapest were we
saw students from all over the world.
I thought that studying abroad was a rare
experience, but I stood corrected when
I saw the students at that university;
in fact, it seemed that the minority of
the students were from the local area.
I suspect that many of those students
were completing entire degrees in a foreign
land to them. This concept was intriguing
to me, we make a big deal when we study
in a different state, but these students
are studying in a different country with
different languages and customs. My only
regret from the entire trip was that I
was not allowed the opportunity to befriend
a student so that I could find out more
about how it is to live and study there.
I say that I was not able to make friends
with other students because most, if not
all of the other students who looked friendly
and could speak some English were women
and if Irina were to catch me talking
to one of them, she would not buy my story.
Andras’ best friend and Romani activist
Oladas who is the main go-to person for
all Romani issues and is an advisor to
the prime minister of Hungary on Romani
affairs gave one of the first class room
lectures. He opened our eyes to who the
legendary gypsies are and the issues they
face. The Roma were originally a nomadic
tribe from northern India who left their
land over a thousand years ago and made
their way into Europe. They were always
ostracized and forbidden from staying
at any one place so they were never able
to settle in a territory that they could
call their home. For the most part they
have been in Europe for so long that going
back to India is not a real option for
them. They have been called gypsies because
of the stereotype that they have of gypping
people. The Roma have been associated
with poverty and crime, but these realities
result more from the discriminatory and
unfair treatment of their host countries
than anything else. Many times the Roma
are falsely accused of hurting the country
and unfortunately become targets for violence.
In the 1990s, over 80% of were unemployed.
Oladas has been working on desegregating
schools and improving the living conditions
and education for his people.
One day we went to a Romani graduation ceremony
that Oladas had put together to recognize
the efforts of some outstanding students.
We got to meet many other Roma and see
how their side of the world looked like.
The eight or so students that were recognized
are part of a very small number of Romani
students who actually attend college.
It is very difficult for people whose
main concern is to put food on the table
to get a higher education. The entire
experience was very uplifting and gratifying.
We were lucky enough to peer into an intimate
moment with a downtrodden people where
neither language nor nationality or race
seemed to matter as much as the hope for
the future and chance for change represented
by each of those educated young men and
women standing before us.
"The city felt both big and small
at the same time."
In our first week in Hungary, we realized that
it was difficult to really go out late
without considering that we would have
to wake up at eight in the morning for
class. I really enjoyed walking around
Budapest because it was almost impossible
to get lost because the city felt both
big and small at the same time. The city
had many things to see and do but the
streets were nothing like Manhattan blocks
so it was easy to walk from one place
to another. As long as I knew where the
river was, I could never get lost because
I could always go to the river and find
certain landmarks that were close to the
hotel. Budapest is very easy to get around
in because there are more transportation
options than we have here in New York.
They had an underground metro, they had
an aboveground train, they had buses and
they even had trolleys. We could get to
practically anywhere in the city that
we wanted to. Also during that first week
in the classroom we had a few professors
from the same university visit our class.
For the most part it was a pleasant experience
except for one snobby professor from Canada
who thought she was God’s gift to
us. Prof. Stevens-Arroyo asked each of
his students to share with the Canadian
professor some of their thoughts about
Hungary and so we did. Most of us spoke
about the beautiful architecture and the
rich culture and history. To those comments
I also added that I was surprised by the
diversity that I saw. The Professor reacted
as if I had insulted her. She was puzzled
by my comment and she demanded an explanation
for it. I told her that sure most Hungarians
are “white”, but they fall
in to a diverse spectrum of what we call
“white” as opposed to what
might be found in Switzerland where most
people have blond hair and blue eyes,
Hungarians look different. My observation
is consistent with the history of the
country with its many occupations and
foreign influences. Hungary is definitely
no London, but Hungary has been a center
for diversity long before London became
what it is today. You can find people
who look German, Russian, Turkish, and
all the different combinations thereof
that have deep roots in Hungary.
By the second week, we learned a lot about
Hungary’s most recent core and periphery
relationship with The Soviet Union. Hungary
was not part of the Union but it might
as well have been because of the strong
influence that Russia had on the country.
Hungary was a full-blown communist country
that suppressed its people from the freedoms
and opportunities that its western neighbors
were enjoying. By following in the footsteps
of Russia, it assured its protection and
trade with it. Many Hungarians actually
speak Russian because they were forced
to learn it growing up, but because of
their strong resentment of that country,
many of them have grown to hate the language
and anything that reminds them of it.
Today Hungary is a free country and some
might say maybe even too free. Pornography
is rampant in the country at least for
United States standards; it is not unusual
to find huge billboards and advertisements
with naked women on them. In fact, conveniently
located on the corner from our hotel was
a strip club that did not hold back from
using explicit photographs outside of
its doors to let everyone know the kinds
of thing that were going on inside. Hungary
is known for its great food, great city
and beautiful women and I have to say
that all three depictions are accurate.
I was very impressed with the cuisine
in Budapest, an avid Austrian tourist
told me that Hungarian cuisine was akin
to the more famous French cuisine except
that it was less expensive and served
in bigger portions. One night, Irina and
I visited a restaurant that was on a yacht
on the Danube, it was such a beautiful
sight. We went inside and ate royally.
I had duck in a sweet fruit sauce that
was to die for, and like all Hungarian
restaurants it is customary to always
provide soup and salad with every meal.
This restaurant was the most expensive
one that we had eaten in while in Hungary;
we actually paid the equivalent of 15
dollars for each meal. It would be unthinkable
to get a gourmet dinner in New York on
a yacht for even three times that price.
Budapest is also famous for its natural mineral
baths. Irina and I visited them on the
weekend. These baths were housed in an
elaborate hall in a hotel. It was a beautiful
scene. The hall had more than a dozen
baths to choose from and each with its
own chemical variation. We also got in
to a swimming pool that could fit over
two hundred people in it; the entire place
looked like an aquatic heaven. Of all
the great things that we did in Hungary
the one thing that I miss the most was
the nightly walks across the bridge over
the Danube. The city felt safe and it
had a certain charm about it at night.
Hungary is a city of many lights and beautiful
old architecture such as their Gothic
churches and Parliament building and museum.
The entire experience was educational,
enlightening and fun all at the same time.
It was sad to leave such a beautiful place,
but I have made a promise to my self to
return. I recommend that anyone considering
studying abroad should do it, but what
really made our experience special was
that we had very knowledgeable professors
that actually taught us something. I have
heard of study abroad programs that are
conducted more like vacation travel than
anything else. One can always vacation
on his own time, but to have a truly educational
experience in a foreign country is rewarding
and beneficial beyond measure.
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